Recent studies have proven that parental involvement in a potentially violent child’s treatment will often influence the child to overcome obstacles which may contribute to the child’s violent tendencies. However, the task of involving a parent may be daunting to administrators since parents can be resistant to the possibility of having raised a violent child. How, then, do administrators encourage parents to address the issues in their child’s life? Introducing the Violence Issue To begin the discussion, counselors may invite the parents to their office or request a time for a home visit. The parents may feel more comfortable in their own home. Upon invitation, the counselor may address his concerns. An opening showing concern and compassion will be more well-received than an accusation, so a counselor may wish to open with a statement such as, “I am concerned about your son’s recent withdrawal from the basketball team.” This open-ended concern may encourage the parents to address their own concerns. If this is the case, listen to the parent’s concerns. Even if their parenting style seems offensive, a counselor should never criticize the parents. Instead, focusing on the positive aspects of their parenting and suggesting additional tactics and techniques can help establish a working parent-counselor relationship. During the visit, it is important to determine if the teen is a danger to the family. Many parents with violent teens may have been abused by or in danger of abuse from their children. Establishing an open, non-judgmental line of communication can encourage abused parents to seek assistance. At this point, ensure the parents are not in immediate danger and refer them to appropriate information or authorities. No one deserves to be assaulted, and parents should always feel safe. Overall, being open to parental concern, offering assistance, and ensuring parents are safe from harm can all go a long way toward cementing a relationship with a violent child’s parents in an effort to help the child.